My Brother's Baby Shower Invitation Arrived, and I Was Reminded of All the Reasons I Couldn't Attend

When my brother's girlfriend turned violent, I knew I had to protect myself and my family. Now, with a baby on the way, the invitation sitting on my kitchen counter forces me to confront the painful choice between supporting my brother and maintaining healthy boundaries.

My fingers trembled as I held the pale yellow invitation. The cursive font spelled out "Baby Shower" in metallic gold, and my brother Anthony's name sat next to Olive's like nothing was wrong.

Like the past two years hadn't been a nightmare of 3 a.m. phone calls and tearful reconciliations.

I placed the invitation on my granite kitchen counter and walked to the window. Outside, my garden flourished with spring flowers.

The roses I planted last season had finally bloomed, their petals perfectly intact. It was unlike my relationship with my brother since Olive entered his life.

The memories flooded back. I remembered Anthony sobbing on my couch after Olive threw all his clothes onto their front lawn because he'd liked a coworker's Facebook post.

There was also the night she'd followed him to a family dinner, screaming that he was cheating on her with our cousin, Sarah.

Another time, she'd called my workplace pretending to be a police officer, claiming Anthony had been in an accident, just to see if he was really having lunch with me as he'd said.

"She's just insecure," Anthony would say after each incident. "You don't understand her like I do. She had a rough childhood."

But I understood enough. I understood how she isolated him from his friends, tracked his phone, and checked his email.

How she'd threaten to hurt herself whenever he tried to leave. How she convinced him that every woman in his life was trying to steal him away.

The memory that haunted me most was from last Christmas. Anthony had arrived at Mom's house with a black eye, claiming he'd walked into a door.

When Mom suggested he talk to someone, Olive stormed in, accusing us of poisoning him against her. She'd thrown Mom's cherished snow globe collection against the wall before Anthony could stop her.

Then came that night three months ago. I'd woken up to the sound of breaking glass and ran outside in my pajamas to find Olive, wild-eyed and screaming, smashing my car windows with a tire iron.

"You think you're better than me?" she'd yelled, her words slurring. "You think you can turn him against me?"

"Olive, stop!" I'd screamed, but she'd already slashed my tires. When Anthony showed up ten minutes later, he'd apologized profusely while Olive sobbed in his arms about how I was trying to ruin their relationship.

But I saw a look in his eyes, like he was determined. I'd thought he was finally done.

"Vi?" Eric's voice pulled me back to the present. I hadn't heard my husband entering the kitchen. The invitation was in his hand, and he probably knew exactly how I was feeling. But he still asked, "You okay?"

I sighed and leaned against the counter. "Remember when Anthony said he was finally leaving her?"

"Right after the car incident?" Eric sighed. "Yeah, that lasted what, two days?"

"Three." I picked up a dish towel and twisted it between my hands. "Then they called that family meeting."

The memory of that day made my stomach churn. We'd gathered in Mom's living room and hoped that Anthony was finally going to tell us something good, something resulting from that look I saw in his eyes after the incident.

But instead, he opened the door and Olive came in.

"We're pregnant," they'd said together, beaming. "We're having a baby!"

Mom had frozen mid-smile. Dad had muttered something about needing air. I'd felt the room spin.

"That's... that's wonderful," Mom had managed to say, but her eyes had met mine across the room. In them, I saw the same terror I felt.

I was still thinking about that memory two weeks later. The sound of my phone ringing interrupted Eric and me while we were cooking.

Anthony's name flashed on the screen. The baby shower was today. I'd been avoiding his calls for a long time.

"You better answer it," my husband said with tight lips.

I nodded.

"Hey, Vi," Anthony's voice came through, but it was hesitant. "I was just wondering... are you coming to the shower?"

The shower had already started, and I sighed, as the weight of years of watching him return to Olive pressed against my chest. The endless cycle of fights and reconciliations.

"No, Anthony," I finally answered, as steadily as I could, but I had to wipe a tear away. "I can't. Enough is enough."

"Oh." A pause. "Okay."

The line went dead.

I turned, and through my kitchen window, I watched a bird land on my garden fence, and then take off again. Free to fly away from anything that might harm it.

Eric then wrapped his arms around me from behind. "You did the right thing," he whispered.

I nodded, knowing it was true. Sometimes love means walking away, even when every step breaks your heart.

Here's another story: When my cousin's wedding invitation was held hostage until I apologized to my uncle, I knew exactly what game they were playing. So, I gave them exactly what they wanted… in my way.

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