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My Cousin's Wedding Invitation Was Withheld Until I Apologized to My Uncle – So I Took Petty Revenge

Roshanak Hannani
Jan 31, 2025 - 12:58 P.M.

When my cousin's wedding invitation was held hostage until I apologized to my uncle, I knew just exactly what game they were playing. So, I gave them exactly what they wanted in my way.

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My Uncle David has always been what most people would politely call "difficult." I prefer to think of him as a specialist in insults and nagging, with my mom, Susan, as his favorite target.

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A man with a serious face | Source: Midjourney

Growing up, I watched him take every chance to tear her down with carefully crafted comments that always ended with, "I'm just trying to help."

The final straw came at my grandmother's funeral. My mother was distraught throughout the entire event and was still crying when we exited the church. That's when Uncle David decided it was the perfect time to start listing Mom's supposed failures as a daughter.

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A woman is crying at a funeral | Source: Pexels

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"You know, Susan," he said, "if you'd visited more often instead of focusing on your career, maybe Mom wouldn't have felt so alone at the end."

My mom just stared, then looked down at her shoes. Twenty years of his comments had trained her to take it. But I wasn't trained that way.

"Actually, Uncle David," I said, squaring up to him, "Mom visited Grandma three times a week and was actually there to say goodbye. Where were you? Oh right, too busy being 'successful' to drive 20 minutes to see your own mother."

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A young woman frowning | Source: Pexels

The crowd gathered outside, mostly still giving their condolences, went silent. Uncle David's wife, Karina, huffed, and my cousin, Michael, their kid, crossed his arms.

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"Young lady," David said, his face turning red, "you have no right to speak to me that way. I've only ever wanted what's best for this family."

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A man angry outdoors | Source: Pexels

"Really?" I laughed. "Because all I know about you is that you know how to tear everyone down, mostly Mom, and you certainly know how to make everything about you. Honestly, I'm done staying quiet about it."

With that, I wrapped my arms around my mother's shoulders and pushed to my car. She was horrified, but I thought I saw just a bit of pride.

Three months later, the family received wedding invitations. Cousin Michael was getting married, and everyone got individual letters.

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Sealed invitations in black envelopes | Source: Pexels

Mom got one. Dad got one. Even my sister Emily got one. But mine was mysteriously absent. It wasn't a surprise. I expected it.

But a day later, a text came in from Michael on the family group chat. "Hey cuz," he wrote. "Dad says once you apologize, you can have your invitation. We really want you there."

My mother was not the best at keeping up with her messages, so I went to the kitchen to show her. I wanted her opinion, too.

"Oh honey," she sighed, shaking her head. "Maybe just apologize? For the sake of peace?"

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I looked at her, at the way her shoulders curved inward like they were trying to protect her heart, and at the slight tremor in her hands as she wiped down the already clean counter.

Two decades of having Uncle David as a brother had done this.

That's when I had my idea. Did they want an apology? In the group chat? Fine. I typed out my reply:

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A young woman texting | Source: Pexels

"Dear Uncle David, I've been reflecting on my behavior at Grandma's funeral. I realize my defense of Mom might have seemed disrespectful. I truly cherish our family memories — like when you made me cry at my science fair by announcing to everyone that my project was just a copy of my cousin Cynthia's from a year earlier.

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Or that magical Christmas when you told Mom her turkey was so bad that it must have been the reason my father disappeared. She spent an hour crying in the bathroom. Do you remember that?

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People eating a turkey dinner | Source: Pexels

And remember Michael's 10th birthday, when you cornered me for a lecture about my dress being too short even though I was EIGHT? Such precious moments where you were just trying to help us! I look forward to more of that at Michael's wedding, so I'm soooooo sorry."

My thumb hovered over the send button, wondering if sending it was a good idea. I had gotten a bunch of grievances out just writing it — like a load off my mind.

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Someone texting | Source: Pexels

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Mom always said I could be too quick to react. But my uncle deserved it, so I pressed send.

Twenty seconds later, my phone exploded with notifications.

A few minutes later, Michael sent a private text: "Yeah... about that wedding invitation..."

I didn't finish reading it. Instead, I smiled and turned off my phone. Let them deal.

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Here's another story: My boss thought his sarcasm kept us all in line, but the new hires had a different plan. They smiled, they listened, they laughed at his jokes, but they weren't what they seemed.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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