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Meghan Markle | Source: Getty Images
Meghan Markle | Source: Getty Images

Body Language Expert Compares Meghan Markle's Behavior with First Husband and Prince Harry

Andrii Tykhyi
Sep 22, 2025 - 07:07 A.M.

The Duchess of Sussex's gestures and stances show a big change between her first marriage and her current relationship, according to a body language expert.

Meghan Markle's private life has sparked discussion for years, with many especially curious about her first marriage and her current marriage. A body language expert recently shared observations about how Meghan behaved in both relationships.

Meghan Markle onstage during the TIME100 Summit in New York City on April 23, 2025 | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle onstage during the TIME100 Summit in New York City on April 23, 2025 | Source: Getty Images

Back when Meghan was still establishing herself as a Hollywood actress, she began dating Trevor Engelson in 2004 and ultimately tied the knot in September 2011. However, the two split, with Meghan citing "irreconcilable differences" in their August 2013 divorce.

Meghan Markle and Trevor Engelson in in East Hampton, New York on August 26, 2006 | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle and Trevor Engelson in in East Hampton, New York on August 26, 2006 | Source: Getty Images

The former couple had only a few public photos together, but body language expert Judi James told Daily Mail that those images still offered insight into their romance. Meghan's poses with Trevor suggest she was a "passive trophy wife."

Trevor Engelson and Meghan Markle attend the Anti-Defamation League Entertainment Industry Awards Dinner in Beverly Hills, California, on October 11, 2011 | Source: Getty Images

Trevor Engelson and Meghan Markle attend the Anti-Defamation League Entertainment Industry Awards Dinner in Beverly Hills, California, on October 11, 2011 | Source: Getty Images

Judi also noted that Meghan's perfect smile in photos with Trevor resembled that of a "pure beauty queen," suggesting she was suppressing her authentic self. In group shots, the "Suits" star often leaned in from the edge, letting Trevor take center stage, signaling that he was the "main man."

Meghan Markle, Trevor Engelson, Amy, Nachum, Michael, and Sandy Gross attend a photo exhibit in East Hampton, New York, on August 26, 2006. | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle, Trevor Engelson, Amy, Nachum, Michael, and Sandy Gross attend a photo exhibit in East Hampton, New York, on August 26, 2006. | Source: Getty Images

In contrast, Judi said Meghan's relationship with Harry reflects a confident and equal partnership. Meghan reportedly dated Prince Harry in July 2016 and married him in May 2018 at St. George's Chapel in Windsor Castle.

"If she was once the trophy wife, she now seems to display Harry and boast about him like the trophy husband," Judi observed. Public photos of Meghan show her walking close to the Duke of Sussex, holding his arm with both hands, and directing intimate gestures.

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry visit Centro Nacional de las Artes Delia Zapata in Bogota, Colombia, on August 15, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry visit Centro Nacional de las Artes Delia Zapata in Bogota, Colombia, on August 15, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Judi added that Meghan's physical cues now look "more authentic," with stronger confidence and a desire to appear as an equal rather than an attachment or trophy.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle at Kensington Palace on November 27, 2017 | Source: Getty Images

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle at Kensington Palace on November 27, 2017 | Source: Getty Images

"She looks like a woman aware that the balance, power, love and keenness signals were off-key the first time around but that this time she will get them emphatically right," Judi said. She added that Meghan now often shows herself in the role of star and leader.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle in the Armed Forces Complex in Abuja, Nigeria, on May 11, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle in the Armed Forces Complex in Abuja, Nigeria, on May 11, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Looking at both marriages, Judi concluded that Meghan's nonverbal behavior with her current husband reflects greater confidence and self-expression compared to her earlier relationship.

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